The Inner Wealther of Attraction
Tap into the wealthy weather of love (eternal game)
Ask a man who he admires, and you’ll hear three types of answers:
a myth (A Steve McQueen character),
a memory (his father, or lack of one),
and a mirror (the type of woman he keeps falling for).
Ask a woman the same and you’ll see the same triangle—just inverted, colored with different wounds and different dreams.
Some call this inner architecture the anima and animus.
But you don’t need Jung’s bifocals to read it.
You just need to ask sharper questions about where someone came from and why a particular face, body, energy, or chaos feels like home.
This is a tour through that world—equal parts psychology, timing, hormones, aviator schedules, and Swayze-tier steeze.
Let’s roll.
THE SEASONS AND THE SUNRISE
Men live on a 24-hour clock.
Testosterone wakes up early, peaks by midday, eases off at sunset.
Women (used to) ride a 28-day climate (even on the moon’s tempo, from what I’ve heard)
Menstruation: winter.
Follicular: spring.
Ovulation: summer.
Luteal: autumn.
When you first understand this, you stop taking mood swings personally and start reading them like weather (complete societal application)
Suddenly things click.
And then menopause arrives like a climate change event—not a collapse, just a shift.
Seasons flatten.
Energy steadies.
The queen becomes advisor instead of vessel, assuming you’re in the makings of Kinghood.
Birth control?
Be Advised.
THE KING’S QUESTION: “WHAT JUICE IS WORTH THE SQUEEZE?”
Every man hits a point where he can’t chase every whim.
Time compresses. Ambition sharpens.
The rule is simple:
If the upside doesn’t change your life, skip it.
If the cost drains your energy or attention, skip it faster.
No moralizing.
Just clean math.
It’s the same decision a fighter pilot makes every day:
fuel vs. mission, risk vs. reward, speed vs. survivability.
THE SWAYZE FACTOR
Ask anyone the coolest man of the golden-era leads.
Not Gere.
Not Brosnan.
It’s Swayze.
Why?
Because he fused danger with grace.
He could pull a roundhouse kick, surf a wave, dance a rhumba, and cry honestly in a single movie.
He had integrated masculinity and femininity—animus and anima—without losing edge.
That’s why Dalton in Road House still hits.
Calm warrior.
Gentle killer.
Centered, but coiled.
Young men and women can learn more from Swayze than from any pickup manual.
YOUR ATTRACTION IS A MAP, NOT A MYSTERY
Now let’s talk about an acquaintance i know who was raised by his mom who likes gym girls with “evolution capacity”.
A Classic configuration.
A man raised by a single mother often develops:
– strong social intuition
– comfort around feminine emotion
– a deep, often unconscious craving for a grounded, evolving woman
– and a taste for physical markers of strength (like a gym-built lower body)
He’s not wrong.
He’s reading two signals:
1. Outer mirror:
The body he respects.
2. Inner mirror:
The emotional depth he longs for.
The anima isn’t abstract here.
It’s the part of him drawn to a woman who can reflect, grow, evolve—because that’s the part of him that wants the same.
We ought to ask:
“Does she challenge me without chaos?”
“Does she grow at my pace?”
“Does she take her body seriously like I take mine?”
Two yeses = harmony.
Three yeses = destiny.
THE QUESTIONS THAT CHANGE EVERYTHING
Instead of telling you what anima/animus is, answer these questions that wake it up:
Who taught you what strength looked like?
Who taught you what softness looked like?
Which qualities in the opposite sex do you chase because you never developed them?
Do you choose partners who help you grow or partners who help you hide?
What does your attraction reveal about the version of you you’re becoming?
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Your family wired your inner masculine and feminine.
Your hormones color your behavior.
Your role models shaped your posture.
Your heroes (Swayze) shaped your vibe.
Your fantasies reveal your missing traits.
Your partner choices reflect your internal architecture more than your external taste.
And all of it—every lever—is readable.
THE POINT
Your attractions aren’t random.
Your timing isn’t random.
Your type isn’t random.
Your patterns aren’t random.
You’re carrying the imprint of:
your upbringing,
your inner masculine/feminine balance,
your hormonal tempo,
and the stories you admired growing up.
Fuse the powers and get the blueprint:
A man is attracted to the woman who maps the part of him he has yet to master.
A woman is drawn to the man who mirrors the confidence she hasn’t claimed yet.
This is anima and animus — the psychological physics of who alters our gravity and why.
-PJK
